To as many who genuinely needs help in other to move to the next phase, may your heart desire(s) be fulfilled.
It is believed by many that you should ask for help whenever you need one. However, it can be tough for some individuals.
To mention a few, here are some observations.
Reasons for refusing to ask for help
โข Fear of getting a โNoโ as response.
โข Fear of being mocked by oneโs current condition.
โข Not having trusted fellows within your circle.
โข Assumption that the other party doesnโt have.
Reasons some do not get helped
โข Thinking too highly of oneself (pride).
โข Failing to admit that itโs not oneโs right but a privilege.
โข Ingratitude for the previous ones received.
โข Inability to politely make a request (taking one for granted).
Reasons for not lending a helping hand
โข Bad experiences related to various helps rendered in the past.
โข Inadequacy of resources.
โข Bitterness of struggles in time past.
โข Egocentric (thinking about oneself only).
PS: Undoubtedly, life is like a two-sided coin. Endeavour to treat everyone that comes your way with respect.
By Bethie Babalola
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