“A true loverboy should know how to take kissing directly to the inevitable, ultimate destination … sex.” ~ Wha’anda
If you’re one of those guys that have ALMOST gotten there, but failed to actually get there, I’m really sorry for you.
By THERE, you know I actually mean getting laid moving to the sex zone.
You’ve gotten her to visit you. You’ve made her laugh for hours. You’ve shared one or two drinks. You’ve gotten her relaxed and she’s probably lying on your body.
Unfortunately, as soon as you try to turn your kissing to something more intimate, something more orgasmic, she locks up and it becomes another ‘try, try, try again’ for you.
Sorry.
Well, if you have tried and failed to get beyond the kissing zone… read this and thank Sam Wha’anda later.
Eliminate All Odours: Nothing kills a woman’s sexual urge more than odours. With mouth odor or alcohol breath you’re more than likely to get rejected. So brushing, or rinsing your mouth with a sweet mouthwash, or chewing something sweet just before attempting kiss would be great.
Set The Mood: Some good, slow music can do you a lot of good because it relaxes her and puts her in a giving, loving mood.
Slow Motion Is Always Better: Now, you must know that a kiss is not a bite, neither is it a chewing contest. You don’t have to put all your sexual libido into the kiss. Let it be soft and allow her lips to get some mili-seconds of rest in-between. Pouring 1000 kisses in a second will make you a predator.
Be Creative: A kiss that stays on the lips forever is more likely to bore any woman. So you might want to kiss her eyes, nose, nape, top of her breasts (not the breasts or nipples!), inside of her knees, and hands. Nibble her slowly and sensually as if you’re licking ice cream and you don’t want it to finish.
Sex Is Not Important: Act like you just want to explore her body. Do not quickly attempt to touch her breasts, nipples, buttocks or vagina. Not yet. Also try to look into her eyes as often as possible.
Wait For The Green Light: Women take a little longer than men to get aroused, so the fact that she moves along doesn’t mean she’s primed. It is better to take a very long time and wait for her green light than to rush it, seconds before she is ready.
Trust me, if you do it right, she might just be asking you “DO YOU HAVE A CONDOM” soon.
You must note that with women STOP doesn’t always mean stop. Sometimes, she just wants to have some dignity. But if she tells you to stop, you ought to respect it, especially if the tone is very harsh.
That you want sex doesn’t mean you turn deaf. So, you must be smart enough to know when STOP means STOP, before you end up with a rape charge.
